I'll make this brief because it hurts too much to type.
My dad died last night around 8:30 pm Moose Jaw time.
After spending all day surrounded by his sons, their wives and some grand-kids he finally passed away in the one hour when we were all out of the room. He was like that. He didn't like to be fussed over and when he was finally alone he slipped peacefully away.
He would have been 84 in December.
I have been choked up gusting to in-tears off and on for the last few days but over all I'm relieved.
I got to spend a few great days with him and my brothers, and now I'm doing what all sons and daughters do, I'm grieving and taking care of his business.
Thanks for your thougths and comments.
I'm not coming back to Toronto for another week but I'll be in touch here whenever I can.
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Comments
The loss of a loved one is never an easy thing. My condolences to you, your brothers and everyone who knew and loved Lou.
Posted by: Mike | October 28, 2006 / 18:27
I'm sorry to hear about your father. I was getting choked up just reading about it. I wish you and your family the best through this tough time.
Posted by: Dennis | October 28, 2006 / 18:46
Sorry to hear of your loss.
Posted by: F. Maxwell | October 29, 2006 / 10:38
Hi Humble
My condolences to you, your brothers and all of your family
Ed
Posted by: Ed | October 29, 2006 / 13:42
Sorry to hear of your loss. I too wish you and your family peace and the time together to share lots and lots of fond memories during this time. . .
Posted by: Jen | October 29, 2006 / 15:56
Deepest condolences. Wishing you and your family all the best through this difficult time.
Posted by: Riaz | October 29, 2006 / 20:23
Sorry to hear the news. We're thinking of you.
Posted by: Kari | October 29, 2006 / 21:54
Sorry to hear the sad news. Even though we didn't know him, we heard fond stories of him that made us laugh. Wishing you and your family the best.
Posted by: Megan | October 29, 2006 / 22:47
Hey Humble...what can be said at a time like this, but me and Darce are thinking of you and your family. I lost my dad ten years ago, I know how hard it is. In time, the void left by your father's death will be filled with the good memories and you will feel better-never the same as it was but things will be okay. Give yourself the time you need and grieve however you need to-rely on those around you to help get you through this.
Posted by: Sue | October 29, 2006 / 23:01
Hi Howard, I am very sorry for your loss and my thoughts are going out to you and your family. I hope, once you heal a little, you will be able to take comfort in all the amazing memories your father gave you.
Meghan
Posted by: Meghan | October 30, 2006 / 10:14
My condolences to you and your family Howard.
Sincerely,
Joseph
Posted by: Joe from Niagara | October 30, 2006 / 11:39
Hey Humble,
So sorry to hear about your dad. I'm glad that you got to spend some time with him before he died.
Hold on to all the wonderful memories you had, it will help you get through.
Chrystal
Posted by: Chrystal | October 30, 2006 / 11:45
Sorry to hear about your Dad. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Posted by: Jim Lanigan | October 30, 2006 / 13:32
Howard,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad, but I am glad to hear that you got to spend some time with him. My thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Posted by: Brian | October 30, 2006 / 13:55
Hi Humble,
Sorry to hear about your Dad. It's wonderful, though, that you were able to have some time with him over the last couple of weeks. Do hope you will find comfort with your family. My thoughts are with you.
Posted by: Caroline | October 30, 2006 / 18:22
Humble,
Just found your blog. Sorry to hear about your Dad. The thoughs and best wishes of all your fans here, are with you and your family.
Posted by: Shawn | October 30, 2006 / 22:26
Howard:
I'm very sorry to hear about your dad. I'm glad you are surrounded by family at this difficult time. You can lean on each other for support.
(I lost my dad just 7 months ago).
Posted by: Dave | October 31, 2006 / 03:58
Very sorry for your loss. Long-time Humble & Fred listener.
Posted by: Richard | October 31, 2006 / 07:58
So sorry to hear about your dad. My dad passed away on October 13th and he too was 84. He died just 14 months after my mom. It's not easy. Please accept my condolonces.
Posted by: Sharon G | October 31, 2006 / 09:19
Howard, I am very sorry to hear about the passing of your father. My thoughts are prayers are with you and your family.
Posted by: Adam Edris | October 31, 2006 / 10:13
My deepest sympathies and condolences to you and your family during this difficult time.
Posted by: Annette | October 31, 2006 / 11:20
Howard,we were so sorry to hear of your father's death. Our thoughts are with you. We will be in touch when you get home. Love, Estabelle & Ron
Posted by: Uncle Ron & Aunt Estabelle | October 31, 2006 / 13:00
My sympathies.
Posted by: Michelle | October 31, 2006 / 13:29
My thoughts are with your family during this time of sorrow.
Posted by: Silvio Spina | October 31, 2006 / 13:51
Howard Sorry to Hear of your loss. our Thoughts are with you and your family. Take care. James aand Angela
Posted by: James Edgar | October 31, 2006 / 14:19
Our condolences to you and your family, Howard. Take care and our prayers with you during this time.
Posted by: Rommel Caibal | October 31, 2006 / 22:22
I'm very sorry to hear of your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Posted by: Jennifer | November 3, 2006 / 08:31
I am so sorry for your loss Howard. Lou has obviously left a strong legacy of love and family to you. Peace.
Posted by: Jackie | November 3, 2006 / 14:39